Gen Z Dad Advice

I'm sorry I ever made you cry. Never has it been the intention to make you upset. But it is my responsibility to teach you, and to help you learn right from wrong. And it's challenging to teach someone who doesn't understand the reasoning behind the lesson. For all the times I made you cry by getting upset trying to reach you something, or yelling at you, I'm sorry. The only reason I did so, was the pressure to make sure you knew the right way. 

Form a PAC like structure, political lobbying on behalf of the coalition of:  Catholics and Mormans.  The OPEC equivalent of _____(commodity) . Wheat , soy , corn... 

Principals for the trust. Mandatory reading required for all recipients. Acknowledge each one.  Guiding principals  Credit to Gmas Fisher little books. mention all the family and everything I know and site my sources.  Every man is the sum total of his reactions to experience. As your experiences differ and multiply, you become a different man, and hence your perspective changes. This goes on and on... So it would seem foolish, would it not, to adjust our lives to the demands of a goal we see from a different angle every day? How could we ever hope to accomplish anything... The answer, then, must not deal with goals at all... We do not strive to be firemen, we do not strive to be bankers, nor policemen, nor doctors. WE STRIVE TO BE OURSELVES. But don’t misunderstand me. I don’t mean that we can’t BE firemen, bankers, or doctors...but that we must make the goal conform to the individual, rather than make the individual conform to the goal... Beware of looking for goals: look for a way o

It's hard to hit a moving target. Just move and run , then figure out your escape route, but always keep running. Just run, then look and leave. It will be scary and catch you off guard. But just move and leave. Then figure out where once you are away from the shooting. Patient. Regroup. Move on.  Take safety courses. Families and practice, live and not. Mental experience. 

Cast a wide net. Market to all groups. Which one are you, what is your style, when to be what, when to act like, combos, 3 options.  Stand your ground. In a house. Specifically in theeeting area of the bedrooms, this would be the retreat area. Everyone would move to this area in the event of emergency, and most likely of meeting spots in the event of a nighttime emergency, intruder. This assures that no family members will be walking towards your protected area. Once you can guarantee everyone is accounted for , and no one should be coming in, you can just "wait in the deep dark water ", let them come to you, and fire first. This proves it was justified, stood your ground in your last retreated position, you had no choice. clean up the trail of dollar bills to the bedroom from outside if clandestine. 

Catholicly optimistic. Like caustically but with a deep soulful meaning, religious.  A child's neutral emotions.  Don't make them feel dumb. But ask them silly questions to make them come up with a logical answer. Like: does the chicken scramble the eggs you will eat tomorrow? No, mom does. Ask does the chicken drive you to school? Answer is no, again, who? Dad. See, we have stuff to do. So do you tomorrow, Go to bed.  Take each day as 1 day. Sometimes in anger, we make short or long term decisions independent of each other. Mistakes happen and then the wrong outcome is achieved.  Create the next Napster Twitter blog movie musical. Huge soundtrack. A catalog of my picks stating with my life, then other additions for family members story.  Sometimes a fight is necessary. But mostly not, won't solve much more than a annoymoues bar fight. That's the thing with anger, it begs to stick around. It can go a few ways, mostly you will hurt the ones you love cause you won't b